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Enhancing
the Development of an Infant's Brain
We receive many inquiries from
parents and other interested parties concerning how one can enhance the
development of a baby's brain. Needless to say, volumes can be written
on this topic, and indeed, there are many books on the market that offer
a wealth of suggestions for intelligence enhancement although they
generally underestimate the age at which a child is able to do
most things. The following is a presentation of some basic suggestions
that do not require a lot of money for the purchase of toys and
equipment. What is needed is a loving and interested parent who is
willing to devote time to the Ego for whom he/she is responsible.
First, some of the main points:
An infant's brain in the first months of life responds positively to
flashing Christmas lights around the crib (for an hour or so per night);
while the infant is awake he should have a full view of household
activities; and, the infant acquires significant neurological growth
from having a brightly colored mobile that responds with sound and/or
movement to the child's kicking. When a child begins crawling and
creeping, he should be given a great deal of freedom to explore. Avoid
playpens and wheeled baby walkers because they inhibit or bypass the
child's natural drive and essential need to crawl and then creep.
This means it is necessary to "child-proof" your house for
several years in order to relieve yourself and your child of the
constant concern and anxiety about things getting soiled or broken. Have
nothing around the house that a child should not handle, even though
this may include pets and plants since they both can be dangerous. It is
wise, also, to remove or cushion tables with sharp corners that a child
could fall against. Place many things around the room that the child can
investigate. Boxes, cans, lids, towels, rattles, bells, large colored
beads, colored paper and bows, unbreakable mirrors, balls, paper towel
tubes, and plastic kitchen utensils are just some of the items found in
the average household. Play with these things with your child and talk
to the child frequently.
Even though he
may not seem to understand, take a small baby in your arms when you are
riding in a car, are at the grocery store, post office, or the other
countless places you go, and point out all the different things to see
and touch. The baby that is whiney and cranky is often just bored, and
will respond to these seemingly simple stimuli. Play classical music in
your home, sing songs, and if you have musical instruments in your
household, play them frequently. Have fun with your child! If you are
happy, the child benefits tremendously and the home is a warm, healthy,
and secure place to be.
Long
before a child can speak, he is learning to understand words and
associate them with objects. This is the ideal time to teach reading.
Print word cards in bold letters, labeling various objects around the
house--crib, bed, wall, door, sofa,
etc. Point out the word card and say the word. Make a game out of
learning to read words, for example, "This is the word 'table.' Go
put the label on the table." This can be played several times a
day, for perhaps 10-15 minutes at a time to maintain interest, or as
often as the child desires. As a child becomes familiar with the words,
gradually reduce the size of the letters; and when he begins to show
interest in books, point out some of these same words as they appear in
normal print. It is often said that a one-, two-, or three-year-old
child cannot learn to read because he cannot focus his eyes on small
objects, but anyone who has been around children soon recognizes that
even a one-year-old points out the tiny picture of a mouse in a remote
area of a picture that is full of many larger and more prominent
objects. They notice details that adults disregard.
Stimulate
this interest in details by exploring textures (foods, various grits of
sandpaper, fabrics, etc.), tastes (flavor the child's food with mild
spices and herbs--NOT salt and
sugar), smells (pine forests, apples cooking, aromatic herbs, etc.)
temperatures (obviously not dangerous extremes), sounds (soft, musical,
crackly, rattley), densities (heavy, light), size comparisons (big,
bigger, biggest), colors, and shapes. From your presentation of varied
stimuli the child will learn to discover for himself and be sensitive to
the things around him.
The suggestions
mentioned are all basic things that can occur quite naturally in the
course of a day. Frequently, however, these simple stimuli are ignored.
The time that is usually spent taking objects from a baby (which just
frustrates a child's curiosity) can be made productive by taking the
time, being aware, and being prepared to deal with the child's natural
drives, rather than denying them. All of those things which babies
typically do are part of their learning and growing process. You do need
to protect a child from dangers such as putting small objects in the
mouth, as he goes through the various stages of learning. All the
routine and mundane activities of the day can be enhances into a
love-engendering learning experience for you and your child if you take
the time to allow the child to experience the things around him. |
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