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Encouraging Psychological Growth
As a result of the challenging
"social workshop" environment created by its members, life in
Adelphi takes on many exciting perspectives. One of these is the
increasing awareness on the part of members of a few years residence
that they are enjoying the benefits of added psychological maturity. One
way we see this evidenced is by the success and smoothness with which
they move among others. The opportunity for such growth is a primary
"raison d'etre" of the communities that have been founded to
live by the principles recorded in The Ultimate Frontier. Such inner
growth is especially important in view of the present scarcity of such
active institutions. This article points out how the philosophy of the
Brotherhoods, in contrast with many twentieth-century mores, offers men
ways to more effectively use their tools of brain and mind. Through
cultivating practical attitudes, Adelphi and Stelle Members are
attaining the psychological and spiritual growth that is so vital to
man's sanity and mental health.
From the standpoint of the
Brotherhood's cosmology, psychology might be defined as the ways in
which the human brain, in concert with the mind, responds to events in
life so as to maximize the acquisition of Soul knowledge in accordance
with the design of our Angelic Creators. Man is Mind; but those who have
not yet arrived at Adeptship (at least the eighth degree of Brotherhood)
still have the task of mastering the physical plane. This mastery
includes learning all the physical sciences and becoming highly skilled
at living and working with our fellow man. Both areas are mastered only
through extensive "on the job" training; and so until an Ego
reaches Adeptship, advancement comes only during physical incarnation.
When an Ego incarnates, his mind acts essentially as the
"driver" of his animal vehicle, or body. The Angels associated
with our planet very painstakingly designed the physical vehicle now
used by man to be an optimum tool for converting experience gained on
the physical plane into lasting Egoic knowledge. The human body contains
many marvels both mechanical and chemical, and all of these are governed
by the brain. The human brain along with the central nervous system
comprises a sort of central computer, which in turn is under the control
of the Ego using the body for his incarnation. By means of this command
and control chain, an Ego's thoughts on the mental plane may be
translated into physical action. The effects of such actions return to
the Ego which initiated them, due to the functioning of God's Laws, and
act as a stimulus for that Ego to relate cause and effect. The value of
an incarnation often rests on how accurately this is done. The interface
between the brain/mind of man is arranged so that Egoic control and
physical experience react to provide the Ego with accurate feedback,
which he may then use to improve his environment by uplifting the
quality of his thoughts and actions.
In many respects the brain, to extend
the computer analogy, is only as effective as the
"programming" fed into it during the course of an incarnation.
Conditioning by one's parents during the early years of incarnation is
by far the most potent and direction-setting input the brain ever
receives, since most conscience-forming and morality are firmly
established by age five or six. An incarnating Ego thus entrusts a
tremendous responsibility to his parents. To a great extent, all future
learning is contingent on the early training that he receives as a
child. It is during these years, that the brain absorbs unquestioningly
any and all data sent to it through the senses.
Understanding the applications of this
amazing fact, were pioneered by the Institutes for the Achievement of
Human Potential in Philadelphia, PA. Because of "Institutes"
research, parents, and parents-to-be, are equipped with a great deal of
information on how to assist their small child in proper training of his
built-in propensity to store vast quantities of data. All of the small
child's senses are extra-sharp, their memory is near-photographic, and
information flows in as quickly as it can be presented. In the
low-anxiety atmosphere, which is being carefully cultivated within
Adelphi, the child's intellect is allowed to grow at a rate only limited
by the parents'. We have learned that anxiety, produced whenever a child
is placed in competition with others or made to feel that his acceptance
or being loved depends upon his scholastic performance, acts as a block
to further learning. Most children are unable to remember or think under
stress; and if this is compounded with punishment for failure, children
can block their ability to learn for a whole lifetime. In Adelphi we
have consciously adopted the policy of always extending unconditional
love to the little ones in our midst; and furthermore, every adult tries
to be watchful for any opportunity to "lovingly assist" a
child in learning whenever the chance arises. Children quickly interpret
this attitude to mean that learning is fun and rewarding, and this
outlook will stand them in good stead into their adulthood. Happily, the
child who is well equipped intellectually at an early age also develops
a strong sense of self-esteem. This is clear evidence of the fact that a
newly incarnated Ego's primary goal is to achieve mastery of his new
body as rapidly as possible. In Adelphi, the child's intellect and
psychological health are promoted through early education, as was done
in Lemuria. Although it is not required of applicants to Adelphi that
they be Brothers, we will simulate very closely the conditions and
advantages that an Ego would enjoy who is able to incarnate to parents
who are Brothers.
The concept of the "extended
family" is very central to the philosophy in Adelphi. In Lemuria,
households often consisted of much more than the usual
"nuclear" family familiar to Americans of this century. As
many as forty individuals, ranging from grandparents, aunts and uncles
to the children shared a large, many-roomed hacienda. Children grew up
with the love and attention of many adults, which fulfilled the need of
all children for security. This arrangement provided the Lemurian child
with many opportunities to form loving linkages with other elders as
well as peers. Such a diversity of emotional relationships is a major
psychological need; it's importance may be gauged by the contrasting
lack of such relationships in current Western culture and the resultant
alienation and "cast-adrift" feelings common to so many
people. Life in Adelphi is not communal, nor will residences in the city
be likely to differ outwardly from quality housing elsewhere. However,
the absence of fences will typify the close-knit nature of all of
Adelphi's residents, and children will be welcome at any door on their
street. The obvious wealth of practical experience available from a pool
of many surrogate "aunts" and "uncles" and
"grandparents" will be of great educational value for
everyone's children.
The importance of the primary roles of
the parents is recognized in Adelphi and Stelle. During the child's
first years, parental nurturing is used to advantage so that a child has
developed a strong sense of being loved. He will also have been taught
the basic rules of fair play, and have developed the ability to read and
write by age four. The small child is eager to experiment (provided the
safety of his mother's arms is always in view) with his store of
knowledge in the context of others as a means of testing its validity
and usefulness. It is in this context especially that adults are
constantly called upon to assist the child in the development of a
proper code of conduct. Children naturally perceive their needs as
coming first, but with encouragement easily adapt their behavior into
the habit of give-and-take. As the child enters preadolescence, his need
for good role models increases, particularly as they help him
differentiate between masculine and feminine traits. Herein lies the
value of the favorite uncle who teaches the nine-year-old boy archery,
or the "big sister" that shares her skill in ballet. Such
extra-familial relationships encourage the youngster’s self-esteem and
help them understand other facets of human relationships such as those
that arise during the classic family tensions. It will undoubtedly take
many generations to arrive at an optimum childrearing pattern. But, even
in this generation, the advantages of widespread acceptance, love, and
support by the child's immediate community can be seen.
In Adelphi, the practical application
of psychology to optimal childrearing includes recognition of the
child's need for much physical affection. Many studies, including an
extensive cross-cultural survey using hundreds of individual cultures,
have proven that peaceful, sane societies typically provide their
children with plenty of cuddling and love. They recognize that natural
needs for pleasure increases through adolescence and must be met. The
development of healthy, outgoing attitudes precludes any and all guilt
engendering practices towards the children. Instead the young ones are
taught courtesy and respect of others' rights, and their elders extend
the same courtesy to the children. Thereby they all become easily able
to establish lasting, positive relationships throughout their lives. The
teenager's increasing awareness of the opposite gender marks a new phase
of consciousness. As he begins exploring his social skills in this new
arena, it is especially important that his earlier feelings of
self-esteem and acceptance engendered by loving support of the community
continue. In Adelphi, we realize that human’s bodily and mental health
depend upon human closeness as well as continued intellectual growth,
and we encourage both. Social functions in Adelphi are occasions of much
interpersonal warmth, and the evolving community customs will certainly
provide excellent examples for the youngsters as they mature into young
adulthood.
It is always necessary to keep in mind
the fact that members of Adelphi and Stelle have arisen mainly from
within the strongly patriarchal context of current Western civilization.
Although these Egos had assistance in choosing the best parents they
could in terms of minimizing the risks inherent in coming into our
decadent world, the ubiquitous yet unconscious parental transmission of
cultural "garbage" has left few of us unscathed by neurosis.
These psychological handicaps can seriously hamper a person's attainment
of a sane, non-aggressive outlook that will allow early Initiation into
the Brotherhoods. Aspirants to the Nation of God who are now building
the city of Adelphi often face a "de-conditioning" process
that can take decades. The majority of men in our world never perceive
the pandemic "emotional plague", let alone take any steps to
counteract it. Adelphi is unique in not only having a view that
encourages self-searching and the replacing of neurotic attitudes with
virtue, but we also make available many tools that can hastening such
growth. Tools such as those that specifically teach the individual to
get in touch with areas of his psychological and energetic nature are
especially valuable. They can quickly point out where and individual’s
development may have been arrested or slowed due to a (now repressed)
early trauma, either physical or emotional. Such traumas ordinarily
cause a person to encapsulate emotions which, under more natural
conditions, would be consciously understood and discharged. Our society,
which typifies the self-centered nature of the child, suffers acutely
from the tremendous number of the populace so afflicted These techniques
seem to be uniquely effective in promoting the individual's awareness
level over a short period of time. Further refinement of these tools,
plus the high level of emotional support and rapport which exists within
the community, will increase individuals' attainment of the emotional
and psychological maturity prerequisite for being a Brother. In addition
to the above areas of personal development, the real opportunity for
growth in Adelphi lies in learning the best ways to relate to other
people. It is here that the philosophy of the Brotherhoods so perfectly
dovetails with the best observations of modern psychology. As it is
stated in the author's preface to The Ultimate Frontier:
"The student of many years was
likely to have become regarded by his friends as an inexplicable but
wonderful isle of wisdom, humaneness, and peace in this vast sea of
frightened, grasping mankind."
Perhaps the most telling aspect of the
Lemurian Philosophy is its emphasis on self-responsibility. Most of the
individuals attracted to The Adelphi Organization have already
discovered for themselves the advantages of being a doer, and molding
their environment to their liking by initiating the right actions. Such
self-reliance usually pertains to business and ownership of property,
since our culture is so heavily slanted toward the Apollonian or
practical side of life The Brotherhoods point out that the same
techniques which bring a person wealth may also be utilized to steadily
build Egoic growth. The Law of Cause and Effect operates dramatically in
the complex areas of human emotions, behavior and motivations. As
members take increasing responsibility for the quality of the physical
and spiritual aspects of their lives, they forge ahead in a balanced way
to Initiation. Adelphi is well suited for people to take responsibility;
Richard's teachers have made it clear that the Remnant shall have to
build the Nation of God themselves. In the interim community of Adelphi,
members are learning all the skills and trades needed to build a city
from scratch. The tremendous interchange of abilities and information,
and plain hard work involved, make for many opportunities to practice
Christ's Eleventh Commandment to Love one another. Adelphians are
subject to the same frustrations concerning time and money as everyone;
but the Brotherhoods have provided a set of guidelines for dealing
lovingly with one another even under hardships. These are the twelve
great virtues, and practice of them is the tool which elevates man's
mind toward the perfection of Mastership. The degree of cooperation
needed for achieving success in the task of building a new nation is an
effective catalyst for accelerating members' Egoic growth. We live in a
world where competition is heralded as the measure of a man or woman. In
Stelle and Adelphi we have the chance to form many close friendships
while working side by side as we undertake the culmination of a great
project begun by Christ over six millennia ago. The weekly work parties
at the Adelphi site as well as planning and business meetings provide
avenues towards creating an extended-family environment. The invisible
but tangible sense of well-being and mutual respect which accompanies
being in Adelphi is proof enough to it's members that we are heading in
the direction of positive psychological growth.
Although many thousands of colleges
and universities exist in America, very few even begin to address the
important challenge of Egoic growth. However, in Adelphi, the membership
feels a strong need to systematically present to new postulants the
wealth of basic philosophy and group directions which had become
operative in the group's history. The Orientation Program was the first
of the adult education programs having been started in 1981. The
Orientation Program emphasis psychological growth with topics such as
emotional maturity, developing self-esteem, and positive mental
attitude. These are designed to show the Postulant techniques for
changing his life by changing his attitudes. The most valuable
information gleaned from the orientation classes remind everyone how
powerful the mind is, and stimulate the individuals to test out the
proven roads to personal success. The goal of such teaching is to point
out those areas where the current culture has failed to encourage (or
has even discouraged) psychological growth, and to provide ways of
filling in the gaps.
The fact that the Brotherhoods'
cosmology is unfamiliar to the majority, in addition to the
centuries-old societal bias against independent experimentation, makes
the community of Adelphi very necessary beacons for those who would rise
above the status quo. Numerous 'social workshop' communities have arisen
in the Americas since the dawn of the Aquarian age, but very few combine
the balance of culture and technology recognized as essential by the
Brotherhoods. As the end of the century draws near, those Egos who
recognize the need for preserving culture and excellence will be drawn
in increasing numbers to the prototype community. Experience in Adelphi
has shown the excitement and dynamic exchange of each person's thinking
will in itself be an ongoing boost toward psychological maturity and
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